Is it just me or anyone else also feels like losing touch to simpler things? I fetch some beautiful memories from the times when my parents were young, energetic, and full of romance. I have seen simple table meetings turning into little romantic moments. It still makes me smile and I am pretty sure that it was a great deal for my parents too.
I am quite aware of the little and simple things that make my relationship a retreat at various occasions. At the same time – sometimes, love is too conditional that we can barely stand on different points without badmouthing about each other. However, I never saw my parents following this style, it doesn’t mean they never had arguments. The main point is the maturity and sanity was too much in presence that they could never insult each other especially in front of any third person. Somehow, I feel that these days, relationships are more about achieving equality than finding the right balance.
However, this is almost everything that I have been wondering for years until we started traveling together. It did something magical to us and also to our relationship. We have now a stronger bond than ever. No matter if life is falling apart or we are celebrating a little moment, we stand by the sides without thinking otherwise of it.
Now, if you had the same feelings or you are the couple that travels together, but still find it hard to get along at the crucial times. Here are some travel tips for you. Remember that all these advice are coming from the personal experience so, take another chance on your relationship before jumping to the quick and absurd conclusions.
- Make a separate list of things another person wants to do
Traveling together is a perfect chance for you to explore each other’s interests and let them be part of your voyage. Making a list of each other’s things to do can do better work. Ask questions and plan your trip accordingly.
- Pose together – Create memories
Never miss a chance to pose together. The world gives you many places that can be a memorable place for posing together. Make some classic memories and let that be a relishing moment of your life.
- Explore your greatest fears together
Togetherness is better than being separate while traveling on the road of life. When you know that someone is there to catch you or has your back, you appear more confident in exploring your fears of life. I was scared of heights, but our recent skydiving experience took all the fear away from me. Perhaps, my heart has felt affection as I was sure that if this person is by my side, I won’t regret this adventure.
- Don’t mind being childish with each other
Play with each other. Plan some little games or short picnics in the park. You can go hiking and also try the beginner’s course for golf or beach sports. So, you don’t have to sound reasonable with your partner. Enjoy some stupid conversations and silly acts too.
- Try simple things
You don’t have to go to luxuries. A simple date or a random confession of love can be a great deal too. Therefore, don’t shy away from planning simple dates at the street side cafes. If you are really in love, it will make a huge impact on your relationship.
- Little surprises can keep the spark alive
Little romantic surprises can become profound memories of your trip. It can be date night, surprise proposal, buying a gift, spending time at the hotel, go for a movie or just enjoy a short bowling tournament.
- Let the intimacy add the spice in your relationship
Intimacy is the essential part of a relationship and it is not about getting close physically, but reaching out to each other on a personal level. Getting to know about careers, making future plans and celebrating moments together. Travelling can be an ideal way to explore each other and also know about the expected changes in personality that can occur in the near future.
You need to be thoughtful while planning a future with your better half. So, why not try taking a journey together, it will help you a lot. You can get an idea about thinking attitude of a loved and at the same time, you can enjoy some thrilling moments together. See it for yourself how far a little effort can take you in a healthy relationship.